What to do.

It is a beautiful day in Lima, Peru.

I had a great night last night with daniel and his best friend jonathan. Drinking beers on the roof, listening to good music, smoking hookah and relaxing. It was much needed.

I am still torn though. I am not the happiest here. I want to be in LA. But I don't want to be away from Daniel. He can't come till January. Do I stay until January to be with him, or do I goto La and follow my career happines and wait for him.

THis is a hard decision. What do I do?

Life's a Beach

So my weekend was pretty fantastic.

Friday night I spent some quality time with an amazing person. My friend Joy and I went to a party in the Hollywood Hills, we could probably have spit on the Hollywood sign, it was fantastic. We have always hung out in groups together and I have known her for years, but this was one of the first times I got to really hang out with her one on one. She is grand.

We talked, ate and danced. Karen and Eddie were also there for a bit so it was an overall great night.

Saturday I woke up with a ton of plans. This is my last weekend before I head to Peru for 10 days to be with my love (which I could not be more excited about). But in reality I ended up staying in my apartment all day and skyping with Daniel. It has become very apparent that I can kick his ass at almost any yahoo game (with the exception of Checkers and Battleship - so we just don't play those.. hehe). It was wonderful spending all day with him, even if it was only virtual.

Sunday I went to Venice beach with some friends:

I was out in the sun all day which is nothing short of amazing.

I left the beach for book club. We were discussing "The Glass Key" and we ALL got the killer wrong. The book was not my favorite, but book club always makes me smile.

I left book club for poker night at Mica's. I didn't win. Mostly because I promised Daniel I would be done by 10:30 so that I could talk to him before it got too late. ANd i did :)

Its just a shame that the wonderful weekend was greeted by an awful Monday.

Long story short, I am not getting a raise. According to my boss my performance is great but the with the strike they cannot afford to give raises.

It is a bad excuse and an insult to my loyalty and hard work. I can't express my disappointment in my workplace and boss.
They pay me next to nothing and I have taken on numerous (money saving) tasks around the office. I am a great employee and they will regret this decision when I leave.

I can't wait to get away.

It has been a while....

WOW.

So it has been a really long time. Here is my life in a nutshell:

I am still living with Debra:

and she is an amazing roommie :)

I have been working at the Skouras Agency for a little over a year now as assistant to Hilary McQuaide. I have learned a ton. and work right on the beach in santa monica:

The biggest piece of news thus far has got to be the fact that I am MADLY in love. His name is Daniel Marin. He is an actor/magician/photographer from Costa Rica. He is the most amazing person I have ever met. He gives me butterflies in my stomach every time I see him. HIs smile lights up a room. He is the first person I want to talk to in the morning and the last person I want to talk to at night. I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him.

We met one night at a bar in Santa Monica called Arsenal. It was totally random. He walked in, we made eye contact and I fell in love then and there.

I am going to visit him in 10 days in Lima! I am meeting his parents.... AHH! I hope they like me. I am nervous.

In other news, I have recently started knitting. I am getting pretty good, gloves, scarves, java jackets galore. There is a website I am addicted to called ravelry. If you are a knitter, JOIN IT!

I started a book club and we meet every month. We are currently ready the glass key and will be meeting this sunday to discuss. I love book club.

I also started an idea group of sorts. We meet every two weeks and discuss various projects that we are working on, give creative input, advice, support etc. We recently filmed our first series of shorts and I am editing them now. It really keeps my goals in view and I love being creative with a group of amazing people.

Life is good. I complain far too much for someone with very few problems. My family is healthy and doing fantastic, I am in love and have the best friends a gal could ask for.

I promise to start writing more often...

Just smile all the time.

Time. Space. Repetition. Life. Size.
What does it mean.
Why are we compelled to ask the same question over the ages.

How many people have looked upon this same mountain in awe of its grandeur and asked why they are put here.

What does it mean if there really is no answer.
Would it make life on this rock we call home any better. Or any worse.
What creates meaning?

What is interesting, is that the music playing in the background as this is written and read is creating in itself more meaning that was simply typed. If you come back again. The feeling will be lost, turn on another song. Everything changes.

Time. Space. Repetition. Life. Size.

We are nothing.

Ramblings

Family is intersting, because you can never escape it.

Screw you.

Everyone thinks about themselves. Its the big elephant in the room of our society. But it is only so... because it is true.

and screw you if you don't like me. I will never change for you.

I am . . . who I am . . . love me. or don't.

I am not obligated to love you. nor you to I.

I am words. I am emotion. There is nothing more to life. Life becomes how you express it. Maybe I am not artistic enough. But it is all I can be. Love me or hate me. But feel me either way.

I don't have enough anger left to express the hurt you have caused.
and I don't have enough tears left to waist them on your vanity.
I am not here to make you feel better. I have played that role.

and I'm retired.

You can take my beauty and wit. But I will always have my soul.




It is mine alone.

Coons

I'm crying a bit right now..

I had such an amazing trip. I learned so much about my self, others, and life.
Great people.... and amazing adventures.

I don't want to sleep. Because when I put my head to the pillow. It all ends.

I guess everything must come to an end eventually.

But this is what life is about. . . and I love that this trip brought me back to reality. All that matters is adventure, experience, happiness, life.

Each passing day will bring something new.. .. I just wish I had one more with this one.

Cheers to you Nebraska.

Repetition

you know what I love?

when you meet someone. And you just Click.
It is quite unexplainable really. Sometimes you are just meant to be friends with certain people.

It has always amazed me.



As do sunsets.

I went through a pretty hard time a couple of weeks ago. just frustrated with my life. I felt it was stuck. If you will. And then I woke up.

And now there seems to be promise in every direction.

I have amazing friends. People that I just adore being around. Friends I would have never expected to have.

Opportunity is everywhere here. It is hard. It is a lot of work. It is stressful. But it is here. And I couldn't ask for more.

I realized that I am doing everything I have wanted to do. And for that. I am thankful at every sunrise.

The regeneration happening all around is beautiful.

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I think this video is amazing:
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After a stressful month at work, things are looking up. I finally know how much I am making after my promotion, and am starting to get my reel together, to move on to bigger and better things.

This city amazes me. There are so many opportunites, if you look hard enough. And sometimes when you don't look at all.

I wonder what my experience would have been like had I not moved out here into such a cool group of friends. I am a very lucky person.

A good friend pointed out to me the other day the unofficial start of election season begins with labor day. Notice the gas prices dropping.

I wish it was election season more often. Gas is crazy expensive.

There are a couple of things I miss about Texas (other than my amazing friends and family) . . .

RAIN. Thunderstorms, lighting, the way the air smells before rain, and the think air when it is done.

Hippies.
Live music.
Cheap beer.
6th street.
100+ degrees.

And, when I was in Austin. I was very . . . in my head. In a weird way. I miss that. Not that I want the depression, or the pensive mindset, but in a way, I miss it.

But . . . LA is amazing. And I am happier than I have been in such a long time.

over and out.

My father

I have been afraid lately.

To see my father. I know that he is here. And that the odds of seeing him are so small... but I have this weird feeling that I am goign to run into him.

And I would not know what to do.

It scares me

Why are people so crazy?

I have a very good friend who was unfortunate enough to have dated a psycho.

And yes, she is a girl (as if you really thought a guy was psycho).

They dated for about 7 months, actually met at my house, through a mutual friend. Apparently the fact that we were friends was a little but too much for her, and she became VERY jealous.

So jealous in fact that on one night, while my mother, and 2 good friends (him included) we all playing pool, she decided it would be a good idea to send out a rather scandalous video of the two of them to my cell phone. THis came with a message that said it was also being sent to his mother and boss (he works in the capital so this is a bad bad thing). Text messages continued throughout the night, claiming that she knew I was with him at his apartment ( I was with him, and my MOTHER) and she went on to tell me of the various sexual acts he enjoyed. All very vulgar and nothing that I wanted to know.

I did not respond at first, and as they began to get worse, my responce was simply, "please stop that is gross". I am not a fan of drama and will avoid it at most costs.

Eventually they stopped fighting, and she (or so it seemed) began to understand that he no longer wanted to date her. Things were good for about 3 months, and I had even heard rumor that she was dating someone else.

That all changed yesterday.

I recieved 4 e-mails from my friend... but when I opened them up, they were all personal e-mails to another of his friends . . . saying that he missed me. Then I looked at the subject and realized that it was her sending them FROM HIS ACCOUNT.

So after 3 months of being broken up, she still snooped in his e-mail, looking for some sort of ammo against him. She also hacked into his myspace and changed BOTH of his passwords. SO he could not longer check his myspace or e-mail. THis being bad because he works for the government.....

long story short. Why are girls crazy?

I dont get it. Why does everyone like drama so much? People need to understand that if someone does not like you and want to be with you 110% then the relationship is not worth it. GET OVER IT . . . move on . stop being a baby about it and GROW UP.

Ahh . . well that will be then end of that rant for me . .

on to cooler things. I shot 3 red carpets in the last 3 days . .. I took pictures of a couple of them:
ANT BULLY which was produced by Tom Hanks :)

And John Tucker must die:

yes that is my hand there filmming :)
Tonight I will be filming Taladega Nights . . which is cool . . then getting a drinks with some wonderful, wonderful people. . .

Have I mentioned how much I love my life in LA?

A rant

I hate it when people talk about doing things, and never actually do them.

If you say you are goign to do something . . DO IT. Life is too short to wait for things to happen for you. If you want something, you have to make it happen for yourself.

I suppose that is hard to hold on too in this whirlwind of a life we live in. But so very very important.

"Obsession, obsession, obsession" - A.C. Lyles

There are no disclaimers in life.

Marriage

This story begins with myspace.

As I joined myspace I started to learn a little about the lives of those people I had once knew. In high school. A long long time ago. As I stroll down the lanes of personal pages is becomes apparent to me that almost everyone that I spent those fabulous 4 years with is now married.

Which brings me to the question. Am I supossed to be thinking about that now?

I have a couple good friends now, that I talk to on a daily basis. Both of which are in serious relationships, and they are starting to talk about their marriage plans, and they have time limits for the major events in their lives. They know when they want to have kids, and how long they are goign to wait it out with the guys they are with now etc.

That mindset is so foreign to me. Not that I don't want to have those things, they just seem to be so far away. I am not ready at all.

It always amazes me how different people's lives can be.

My life in California

Well it has been a while since I have posted on this blog, and since my friend Brian uses his blogspot all the time . . . it has sparked my interests again. Sorry blogger for neglecting you.

Lets see. I have moved to California.

I live in Sherman Oaks. I absolutely love my apartment and my roommate. Everything just kind of fell into place. We found the place sight unseen, and it turned out to be a fantastic apartment. My view is beautiful :)


I got a job at Cinema Electric as a receptionist the first week here. And now I run camera for their show Portable Hollywood. Basically I run camera on red carpet events. It is pretty sweet.
The first show I did was Waist Deep. And since then, I have done Rockstar Supernova, Dimes and Whips, The Envy Expo, and Little Man.

The people that I work with are awesome, and I could not have asked for a better job.

Hrm. I need to take more pictures.

ugh

do you ever go through phases when you just hate yourself?

your body, your face, your thoughts, your emotions...

just everything.

I feel that way now. i just want out. just for a second. a break.
unfortunatly those are things that one must live with forever.

Coffee

It is a cold winter night in Austin Texas. The sky is clear, and ice is beginning to form on the windshields of cars. I young lady, clad in sweatpants and collegiate sweater parks her car. Hurries into the warmth of a local 24 hour coffeeshop. She does not look at the menu, she simply walks to the counter, says hello to the Barista that already knows her order. And tips him a couple dollars.

After recieving a double shot of espresso with a little vanilla for flavor and a grande iced hazelnut-vanilla latte, she prepares herself for the walk back to her car. Takes a sip of her hot coffee beverage, and walks out the door. Smiles at the young lady who passes her on a bike, secretly regretting the fact that she did not ride her bike on this amazing Texas night.

The young lady then drives back to her home, listening to Imogen Heap, with the windows open, and her heater blasting. She sips on her espresso in hopes that it will prepare her for the long night ahead. The light turns green, she goes, the light turns red, she stops. Gets out of the car, quietly puts her key in the door, and turns the lights off behind her. Closes her bedroom door, and takes off her sweater.

She looks at a list of seemingly impossible things that must be done before thursday and smiles. She is not good at being bored, and it is almost comforting to know that she will not be for a while.

Life can be so amazing sometimes. If we stop to look at what we do, there is beauty in the simplicity.

Harry Potter

You are a RAVENCLAW!

As a Ravenclaw and as an NFP, you value
imagination, ideas and intelligence. You are
probably somewhat of an individualist and avoid
conforming just for its own sake. You are
insightful and perceptive, and since you are
empathetic and value harmony, you usually try
to avoid conflict. Of course, you may enjoy
participating in heated debates, but only as
long as they remain on an intellectual level
and not a personal level. In general, you are
open-minded and curious, and set high standards
for yourself.


Hogwarts Sorting Hat: Based on Myers-Briggs Personality Typing
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My Boss is a Prick

So I love almost everyone that I work with. From the owners down, there are great people there...

except one.

David Hogan. He is a horribly sad person, and he takes his anger on the world out on everyone else around him.

Right now I am pretty angry because we just had a small fight, I should be at work now, but left. We do not get along.

Simply put, I don't put up with him treating me like shit. Or other people for that matter. It is wrong, and abuse of power, and I stick up for myself and others.

Things he has done recently:

Brings his girlfriend in and comps all her food

Brings his friends in and comps all their food.

If an employee forgets to bring their own cup, he charges them full price.

He is constantly short in the register, and calls me asking (and I quote) "can you see if it is in your pocket" after I have been gone from work for hours. Implying that I would take money.

When (my favorite) general manager quit, he had to train a new one. He sat down for 2 hours one day, when Brett had no idea what he was doing. And held hands with his girlfriend without getting up for 2 HOURS! We were busy, and needed the help. Poor Brett was too afraid to interrupt to ask questions.

When he has to pick something up from the store. He will not put it away. He will simply set it on the floor (in front of its place) and wait for an employee to do it for him.

There are so many other small things that he does on a daily basis. The list goes on and on...

The problem is: he is a manager. His job is to make a shift run smoothly. To enforce the rules, not break them. Make sure the employees are getting along and that they are being efficient.

Not create more work for them. Say one thing and do another. Follow the rules only when the owner is watching. Make the employees miserable because you are so mean to them.

OK, so what happened today...

After he was short on the money, I wrote in the manager book that the drawer was short (because he had been blaming others, and he was the only one responsible this time). Which he did not like. But the owner needs to know that it has been covered up before. This was the most proffessional way to go about it.

So he was already in a bad mood, because he was caught and did not like it.

I told another employee that I would make them a vanilla latte. So I started making it. She did not ring up the vanilla. (.55 cents). He says to me "are you just giving her free vanilla?" which is an interesting comment coming from the man who gives his girlfriend and friends free food/drinks all the time. And I replied with, "she asked me to make her a vanilla latte, if she did not ring it up, charge her for it. But it might be nice to just give it to her" - she works full time and is one of our hardest working employees. And he replies with "you should not do things that you know you are not supossed to do"

- It is a known fact that he and I do not get along (for the above mentioned reasons. I always call him out on his shit. And the last couple of weeks I have been keeping my mouth shut, not worth the drama. I do not like drama. But I could not hold my tongue on this one...

"like gving Cheryl (his gf) free food evertime she comes in?"

He knew he was caught. The only resonce that he could come up with was "I have the authority to do that" which is not true. A manager gets one free meal per shift. All other times, it is a discount.

Then he said he thought I should go home. Which I agreed to.

He is such a self serving asshole. He is rude to customers, and to employees and I do not like him.

When he is in the room, I can feel my chest tighten.

So we shall see what happens on Monday. I am sure we will have a meeting with Al, and I will not like it.

All I have to say, is that Karma is a bitch, he is going to continue to live a miserable life if he keeps treating people the way he treats them now.

Life is weird right now.

There's something sexy about the rain....

Emotions are so weird.

It is amazing to me how fast they can change, and how intense they can be.

Your entire being changes, and morphs, you are no longer rational, or in control. Its scary.

And great.

could you imagine life without emotion?

Whats the point?

Can't turn it off....

What have I done today?
worked 6 hours, class for 3 hours, hour long nap, cooked a little dinner, and am now writing 4 papers.... yes 4. you heard it... 4...

welcome to the suck.

I really liked Jarhead. It was so beautifully shot. Not hard to do with Jake as your lead, but in all honesty Roger Deakins did an amazing job...

It got cold today. Which is weird, because yesterday morning it was in the 70's. Welcome to Texas. I can't wait till LA.

I have been working on so many films lately. It is just crazy actually. On average I am getting about 2 hours of sleep a night, but I can't complain. This is what I want to do .

The cold makes me want to cuddle. And in turn makes me want to have someone to cuddle. But it is so easy to say you just want to cuddle.. I want to cuddle with someone special. It is such a good feeling.

Things I love during the winter:
Getting the warm spot in your bed - can't even move your leg, or it gets cold again
hats!
putting the heater in the car on your cold hands.
Fires
Hot coffee drinks in a mug, prefferably at metro looking at the lake.
the smell of winter
red noses
everyone being nice to eachother for one month during christmas time.
christmas carols!
handmaking christmas cards!
taking 30 minutes to wrap each present because I am so anal (while drinking coffee by a fire)
cuddles
ice storms
middle of the night snow
sleeping with the window open
scarves
lights :)
the new stars in the sky .....

there are so many things that are great about to winter. I used to hate it.. what was I thinking.

Right now, I am going to go back to writing my papers and listening to some amazing local artists. . .

I love art, and all of its forms... the creativity that is everywhere all the time ... sometimes I can feel it... surrounding me.