Why are people so crazy?

I have a very good friend who was unfortunate enough to have dated a psycho.

And yes, she is a girl (as if you really thought a guy was psycho).

They dated for about 7 months, actually met at my house, through a mutual friend. Apparently the fact that we were friends was a little but too much for her, and she became VERY jealous.

So jealous in fact that on one night, while my mother, and 2 good friends (him included) we all playing pool, she decided it would be a good idea to send out a rather scandalous video of the two of them to my cell phone. THis came with a message that said it was also being sent to his mother and boss (he works in the capital so this is a bad bad thing). Text messages continued throughout the night, claiming that she knew I was with him at his apartment ( I was with him, and my MOTHER) and she went on to tell me of the various sexual acts he enjoyed. All very vulgar and nothing that I wanted to know.

I did not respond at first, and as they began to get worse, my responce was simply, "please stop that is gross". I am not a fan of drama and will avoid it at most costs.

Eventually they stopped fighting, and she (or so it seemed) began to understand that he no longer wanted to date her. Things were good for about 3 months, and I had even heard rumor that she was dating someone else.

That all changed yesterday.

I recieved 4 e-mails from my friend... but when I opened them up, they were all personal e-mails to another of his friends . . . saying that he missed me. Then I looked at the subject and realized that it was her sending them FROM HIS ACCOUNT.

So after 3 months of being broken up, she still snooped in his e-mail, looking for some sort of ammo against him. She also hacked into his myspace and changed BOTH of his passwords. SO he could not longer check his myspace or e-mail. THis being bad because he works for the government.....

long story short. Why are girls crazy?

I dont get it. Why does everyone like drama so much? People need to understand that if someone does not like you and want to be with you 110% then the relationship is not worth it. GET OVER IT . . . move on . stop being a baby about it and GROW UP.

Ahh . . well that will be then end of that rant for me . .

on to cooler things. I shot 3 red carpets in the last 3 days . .. I took pictures of a couple of them:
ANT BULLY which was produced by Tom Hanks :)

And John Tucker must die:

yes that is my hand there filmming :)
Tonight I will be filming Taladega Nights . . which is cool . . then getting a drinks with some wonderful, wonderful people. . .

Have I mentioned how much I love my life in LA?

A rant

I hate it when people talk about doing things, and never actually do them.

If you say you are goign to do something . . DO IT. Life is too short to wait for things to happen for you. If you want something, you have to make it happen for yourself.

I suppose that is hard to hold on too in this whirlwind of a life we live in. But so very very important.

"Obsession, obsession, obsession" - A.C. Lyles

There are no disclaimers in life.

Marriage

This story begins with myspace.

As I joined myspace I started to learn a little about the lives of those people I had once knew. In high school. A long long time ago. As I stroll down the lanes of personal pages is becomes apparent to me that almost everyone that I spent those fabulous 4 years with is now married.

Which brings me to the question. Am I supossed to be thinking about that now?

I have a couple good friends now, that I talk to on a daily basis. Both of which are in serious relationships, and they are starting to talk about their marriage plans, and they have time limits for the major events in their lives. They know when they want to have kids, and how long they are goign to wait it out with the guys they are with now etc.

That mindset is so foreign to me. Not that I don't want to have those things, they just seem to be so far away. I am not ready at all.

It always amazes me how different people's lives can be.

My life in California

Well it has been a while since I have posted on this blog, and since my friend Brian uses his blogspot all the time . . . it has sparked my interests again. Sorry blogger for neglecting you.

Lets see. I have moved to California.

I live in Sherman Oaks. I absolutely love my apartment and my roommate. Everything just kind of fell into place. We found the place sight unseen, and it turned out to be a fantastic apartment. My view is beautiful :)


I got a job at Cinema Electric as a receptionist the first week here. And now I run camera for their show Portable Hollywood. Basically I run camera on red carpet events. It is pretty sweet.
The first show I did was Waist Deep. And since then, I have done Rockstar Supernova, Dimes and Whips, The Envy Expo, and Little Man.

The people that I work with are awesome, and I could not have asked for a better job.

Hrm. I need to take more pictures.